I thought that these were both very entertaining reads this week, but I did not see how they related, so I will talk about them seperately.
The first of the two readings was a blog about gay marriage and I found it both interesting and refreshing to hear a gay perspective on not legalizing gay marriage, at the moment. The author said that gay marriage should not be put above everything else, and I agree. Although it may seem ‘unfair’ for gays to not be allowed to marry, is it more unfair than the millions of people without food on the table, or even a roof over their head? Is it moreunfair than the AIDS epidemic? I don’t think so and it is nice to hear somebody that is gay be more concerned with other issues before the issue of marriage. One thing that I did not agree with though was the fact that they “challenge queer communities to remember our awsesomely radical history of building families and raising children in highly political, inventive, and non-traditional ways.” I think that if somebody wants to do this, it is their business, but it is also their business if they wish to adopt and try to create a traditional environment in the home. Just because somebody is gay does not mean that they have to be extremely different in all aspects of life.
I have a gay friend, and he is so flambuoyant about it that it almost comes off as an act. Actual Facebook status by this friend: “My boyfriend, gay roommate and I are having a ZAC EFRON movie marathon! HOW HOMO ARE WE?!”
I do not go around flaunting how straight I am, and would probably get some backlash if I did. This is an example of how some (I am not going to say all, but most of the ones I have encountered) gays are using their sexuality as a spotlight on themselves. Creating a family in a non-traditional way is okay if it is what you want, gay or straight. It is when people are doing this just because they are gay and it is advocated in the gay community that it becomes unhealthy and done for the wrong reasons.
In “A Good Man is Hard to Find”, I found the plot twist very shocking. I do not honestly understand how it relates to family justice, but I imagine I will after class is over. It was a good story though, and I will probably come back and post a comment on my opinions after class is over.